MALTA – Carmen John “CJ” Inco, III, 25, whose spirit now soars with the angels, left us unexpectedly on Thursday, April 30, 2015.

CJ was cherished by his family and friends and his passing leaves a hole, which can never be filled, in the hearts of those whose lives he touched.

He embodied every wonderful trait that any family member or friend could expect. He was loving, caring, kind, easy going, always smiling, affectionate, artistic, creative, hard-working and filled with integrity. His kind and generous spirit continued to his last days when, through his gift of organ donation, he helped others to live.

CJ shined the brightest when he was spending time with his family and friends. He loved to play video games, watch movies and had an enthusiastic appreciation for all kinds of music. He enjoyed ice cream, cooking, making pizza, going to the gym, basketball, skateboarding, snowboarding, and golfing with his dad and brother.

CJ was born on August 13, 1989 at Niskayuna’s Bellevue Hospital and was the first born son to Karen V. Urban (Philip Hill) of Malta and Carmen J. Inco, Jr. (Donna Rickson) of Watervliet.

He was raised in Malta and was a 2007 graduate of Ballston Spa High School. For the past year, CJ was employed in the office of the NYS Comptroller in Albany. A catholic, he attended Mass and received his early sacraments at Corpus Christi Church in Round Lake

CJ was the best brother to Nick Inco (Nicole Favreau); the cherished grandson of Irma M. Inco (late Carmen, Sr.) of Watervliet and Phyllis and Raymond Urban of Ballston Lake and the best friend of Skyler Reed. He is also survived by several loving aunts, uncles, cousins and many great friends.

The family extends a heartfelt thank you to the staff of the Cardiac Care Unit at Albany Medical Center for their care and concern for CJ, especially to Sarah, Jake and Tyler.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday at 11 AM in Corpus Christi Church, 2001 Route 9, Round Lake, NY and interment will follow in St. Mary’s Cemetery, Troy. Friends are invited and may also visit with CJ’s family on Sunday from 2 until 6 PM at the Parker Brothers Memorial, 2013 Broadway in Watervliet.

To those who wish to remember CJ in a special way, the family requests donations to the Bernard and Millie Duker Children’s Hospital at Albany Medical Center, c/o Albany Medical Center Foundation, P.O. Box 8928, Albany, NY 12208 or online at https://community.amc.edu/givenow